Nice Guys Suck, Majorly
I always wonder why articles like this (why nice guys finish last), always likes to be super blunt with nice guys? Speaking of which, why will someone take a shy guy/girl and be all blunt in their face and be like “well you’re just insecure and you need to fix it!”.
I mean that’s all true, but it doesn’t work. Just makes the person defensive and shut down even more. I think nice guys need to be lead out of their misconceptions, step by step. One logical argument after another, until they get it. Otherwise, they’ll just remain self-righteous losers for life I think.